My Rules For Me..

Posted on 2007-03-03

I've made a decision.  I think I am not going to leave.  After several hours of work and thought, and work.. (yes, it keeps interfering!)  I don't want to quit writing.  I can move to another blogsite but there will still be the same problem.  That being that I just may disagree with someone which is cool... but never do I intend to upset another person, I might but it's certainly not my intention. 

So..with that in mind,  I will state and re-state that while I believe a person's blog is their own to write as they choose,  I do think it's morally wrong for ME to write posts with the sole intention of insulting someone that has bothered me.  Yes, I will write when things upset me but I don't write just simply to be spiteful or nasty.  If you think it's okay for you do so.. have at it.  It's your blog, I just don't have to read it.

Most importantly,  if i have an issue with another blogger it will be taken up directly with that person and not ever named here.  Period.  I don't care if you piss me off.. it happens.  That doesn't make it right to announce it to the public, it is wrong, dead wrong and so totally unkind.  That is my own opinion.  If your opinion differs then have at it.. you are the one that must sleep in your bed at night and I must sleep in mine.  I respect your right to be rude. 

Now, if you don't like something I said.. perhaps because you totally disagree with it,  fine.  It happens.  But please do NOT send me a comment, good or bad and think I will ignore it.  To ignore a person's efforts, good, bad or indifferent is wrong.  So, if you disagree and don't wish to hear from me again,  I understand, that is your right.  Simply do not send me anything. Period. If you want clarification and don't like what I say, I understand... just don't respond and I won't attempt to apologize for the misunderstanding..

In fact, I am not again apologizing, whether I did it right or wrong, front door or back door,  for my own opinion.  I wish no apology for yours ..you are entitled. The same as I am entitled and if we don't agree lets be adult about it and move on to the next post.  Simple.

This is the end of this topic.  I write for me and me alone.  If others enjoy it, I'm glad.  If it upsets other's I'm sorry.  I do not write for others therefore I am never directing anything to another person, unless so stipulated and it's not likely going to be mean if I can help it. 

Now.. back to my regularly scheduled blogging.. sometime. 

 

 

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